Sleepwear and intimates are deeply personal categories, and finding pieces that are truly comfortable can require a surprising amount of trial and error. Once I find something that fits well, feels good and holds up, I tend to buy it in multiples.
This guide brings together my year-round favorites, including the bras and underwear I rely on, the pajamas I look forward to putting on, and the foundational pieces that make everything else fit and feel better. These are the things I wear regularly, replace when needed and recommend most often.
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Sticky Bras
For tops and dresses that do not work with a traditional bra, these are the two solutions I keep on hand. One creates shape and cleavage, while the other provides simple, seamless coverage.
NOOD Shape Up Adhesive Bra | $49.50
A reusable adhesive bra for backless, strapless and low-cut styles. The center clasp brings everything together, giving you shape and cleavage without straps or a band showing.
Sticky CAKES Circles | $33
These are for the times when you only need coverage. The ultra-thin silicone lies smoothly under clothing, and the adhesive-free center protects the most sensitive part of the breast. They are washable, reusable and available in three sizes.
Shop the NOOD Shape Up Adhesive Bra and the Sticky CAKES™ circles
Underwear
For everyday underwear, I come back to two very different styles: a soft cotton brief for comfort and a lace thong for the clothes that call for one.
NEGATIVE Cloud Cotton French Cut Briefs, 3-Pack | $62
Soft, stretchy and incredibly comfortable, with a mid-rise front, high-cut leg and slightly cheeky back. The cotton blend is lightweight and breathable, making these an easy everyday option.
HANKY PANKY Signature Lace Original Rise Thong | $24
I’ve worn these for over a decade. The stretch lace is soft and comfortable, and the original rise sits higher on the hips than the brand’s low-rise version. They work best under jeans, trousers and more substantial fabrics since the lace may show through thinner materials.
Shop the NEGATIVE Cloud Cotton French Cut Briefs Pack , the HANKY PANKY Signature Lace® Original Rise Thong , and the HANKY PANKY BreatheSoft™ Natural Rise Thong
Pajamas
I absolutely love pajamas. I have favorites for every season, from crisp cotton sets to soft, stretchy knits, and I’m always happy to find a great pair at any price point, sometimes I splurge, but if it’s cute and cotton I’ll also pick them up anywhere.
RALPH LAUREN Long-Sleeve Poplin Pajama Set | $178
Classic striped pajamas in crisp cotton poplin. The button-front top and full-length pants give them the traditional menswear-inspired look I always love.
PRINTFRESH Short PJ Set | $148
Printfresh makes some of the most charming pajamas, with original prints you will not find everywhere else. This short set is made from breathable organic cotton and is especially nice during warmer weather.
NUUDS Pajama Set | $88
The soft, stretchy option, with a relaxed short-sleeve T-shirt and high-rise, full-length pants. These are comfortable for sleeping and perfect for slow mornings around the house.
J.CREW FACTORY Pajama Set | $39
J.Crew Factory is one of my favorite places to find classic pajamas at a more affordable price. This cotton set gives you the traditional pajama look for under $40.
Shop the RALPH LAUREN Long-Sleeve Poplin Pajama Set, the PRINTFRESH Short PJ Set, the NUUDS Pajama Set, and the J.CREW FACTORY Pajama Set
Bras
A good bra should support you, work under your clothes and remain comfortable for more than an hour. These are the three I rely on for strapless styles, everyday smoothing and full-coverage support:
WACOAL Red Carpet Strapless Bra | $78
The strapless bra I recommend most. It stays in place, gives you real support and has smooth foam cups that disappear under clothing. The removable straps can also be worn traditionally, crossed in the back, as a halter or over one shoulder.
THIRDLOVE Back Smoothing T-Shirt Bra | $78
A smooth everyday T-shirt bra with wide side and back panels. The memory-foam cups create a natural shape, and the straps can be crossed in the back for racerback tops.
WACOAL Basic Beauty Bra | $62
A dependable full-coverage bra with seamless, unlined cups. It gives you excellent support and a natural shape, making it a great everyday option under blouses, sweaters and dresses.
Shop the WACOL Red Carpet™ Strapless Bra , the THIRDLOVE Back Smoothing T-Shirt Bra and the WACOL Basic Beauty Bra
Shapewear
Shapewear and anti-chafe shorts serve two very different purposes, so I’m including both. The Spanx styles provide firm shaping and support, while Thigh Society and ThirdLove are lighter options for preventing chafing and adding coverage under dresses and skirts.
SPANX Mid-Thigh Short | $64
A strong-compression shaping short with targeted tummy control and support through the waist and thighs. This version sits at the natural waist, making it a good choice when you do not need shaping all the way up to the bra line.
Thigh Society The Cooling Anti-Chafe Short | $39
Designed for comfort rather than compression, these are incredibly lightweight, breathable and moisture-wicking. Wear them under skirts and dresses to prevent thigh chafing, especially during hot weather.
THIRDLOVE Smoothing Anti-Chafe Shorts | $26
A soft, stretchy short that provides light smoothing and keeps your thighs from rubbing together. The flat waistband and raw-edge legs help them lie smoothly under clothing.
SPANX High-Waisted Mid-Thigh Short | $78
The full-coverage shaping option, with firm compression from just below the bust through the mid-thigh. This is the one for fitted dresses or occasions when you want support through your entire midsection.
Shop the SPANX Mid-Thigh Short , the Thigh Society The Cooling Anti-Chafe Short , the THIRDLOVE Smoothing Anti-Chafe Shorts , and the SPANX High-Waisted Mid-Thigh Short
Cozy Loungewear
A robe and a good pair of slippers complete the pajama situation. I prefer lighter, breathable fabrics that I can wear throughout the year rather than anything overly heavy.
QUINCE Organic Turkish Waffle Robe | $52
Made from 100 percent organic Turkish cotton, this is a classic waffle robe at a great price. It is absorbent enough to wear after a shower and light enough for lounging around the house. This also makes a great gift.
Brunch Essential Terry Slippers | $98
I wear these around the house and always bring them to hotels because I refuse to walk barefoot on the floor. They are lightweight, machine washable (do not put them in the dryer) and have a substantial sole, so they feel more supportive than a typical hotel-style slipper.
Shop the QUINCE Organic Turkish Waffle Robe and the Brunch Essential Terry Slippers
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