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Are Tory Burch Miller Sandals Still in Style?

I recently stumbled across the TikTok that sparked this whole debate, and I’ll be honest—I came this close to throwing my phone across the room.

The video featured a stylist standing in the middle of a shoe department, confidently declaring that Tory Burch Miller Sandals are “dated.” Dated?! I couldn’t believe what I was hearing.

Let’s start with the sheer absurdity of these kinds of declarations from certain influencers and stylists.

I’m talking about influencers and stylists who claim to represent everyday women—women like you and me, juggling work, raising kids, managing homes, and somehow navigating grocery bills that feel like they should come with a financing option. And let me be clear—there’s real value in this job. I know because I’ve done it myself!

Which is probably why I’m so passionate about this. As stylists, it’s our responsibility not just to guide our clients (or audience) in the right direction but also to advocate for them—to help them make thoughtful, informed choices and truly get the most out of their investments. Fashion should empower women, not leave them feeling pressured to toss perfectly good pieces just to keep up with fleeting trends.

But lately, it feels like the default trend is to call everything “dated,” even when there’s no real reason to. It’s an unnecessary cycle of wastefulness and insecurity, and honestly, it needs to stop.

Here’s my question for them: Do you seriously think a woman who spends $200 on a pair of designer flip-flops should just toss them aside because you’ve decided they’re no longer “in”?

It’s ridiculous.

Look, I understand the need to keep things fresh, stay relevant, and have something new to talk about. But calling perfectly good items “out of style” just to push the next trend? That’s not just wasteful—it’s tone-deaf and, frankly, irritating.

This disposable mentality, especially when it comes to investment pieces, makes zero sense. If you ask me, we should be encouraging women to buy thoughtfully, invest in quality, and wear their purchases proudly for years—not treat expensive, well-made items like they’re disposable fast fashion.

And it’s not just the Miller sandals under attack.

Remember last spring when they tried to cancel skinny jeans? With dramatic cries of, “Burn them!” we were told to ditch the jeans that had faithfully seen us through brunches, date nights, and school drop-offs. “Doesn’t matter if they’re your favorite and fit like a dream,” they said. The nerve!

But here’s where we millennials deserve some credit—we didn’t budge. We stood our ground, refusing to let fleeting trends tell us what to wear. We kept rocking our skinny jeans with ankle boots, oversized sweaters, and anything else we loved, proving that we’re not here to blindly follow every whim of the fashion industry.

I’m proud of us for that. It was a collective stand for practicality, comfort, and personal style—a reminder that we wear clothes to fit our lives, not to chase every trend. And that’s exactly the mindset we should have about all of our wardrobe choices: if it fits, works, and makes you happy, no trend should have the power to say otherwise. Skinny jeans forever—or at least until we decide differently.

Now, back to the Tory Burch Miller Sandals.

Let me be clear: these sandals are not just stylish—they’re modern classics. Neutral tones like tan, cognac, black, or even a soft metallic make them endlessly versatile, similar to a pair of Jack Rogers. They’re preppy, timeless, and effortlessly chic, the kind of shoe you can count on year after year, regardless of TikTok trends.

For me, they’re a staple during the warmer months. When we’re at the shore in August, where dressing up is optional at best, I wear them with everything—shorts and a tank for ice cream runs, or a breezy summer dress for a casual dinner.

They’re also a packing essential for my annual girls’ trip to Key West. These sandals handle it all, from lounging by the pool to dinner out and even dancing down Duval Street. I never have to think twice—they just work.

If you’re looking to keep your pair classic, invest in a neutral shade that complements your wardrobe. For some, that might be a warm tan or classic black. For others, a soft metallic or ivory might be the perfect choice. Picking a shade that feels timeless to you ensures your Millers will stay relevant and versatile for years to come.

So no, don’t toss your Millers. Keep wearing them confidently—because some things, like well-loved sandals and skinny jeans, just never go out of style.

Tory Burch Miller Sandals

Tory Burch Miller Sandal, $198

When we are at the shore in August, with very little reason to dress up, my Tory Burch Millers are my go-to for everything. Whether I’m throwing on a pair of shorts and a tank to grab ice cream with the kids or slipping into a breezy summer dress for a sunset dinner, they effortlessly pull everything together. Their versatility is unmatched, which is why they’ve earned a permanent spot in my summer wardrobe.

And then there’s my annual girls’ trip to Key West. These sandals are the MVP of my suitcase—no contest. I don’t have to overthink or second-guess; they just work. From lounging poolside with a cocktail in hand to heading out for dinner, and even for a night of dancing down Duval Street, they’re a seamless fit for every occasion.

The key to keeping them classic and versatile is choosing a neutral color that complements your personal style. For me, that’s usually a shade like tan, cognac, or black—timeless tones that go with everything. If your wardrobe leans more toward cool tones, a soft metallic or ivory might be the perfect neutral for you.

Investing in a color that feels like your classic ensures they’ll remain a staple for years to come, whether you’re vacationing, running errands, or enjoying a low-key evening at home. Neutral Millers are the ultimate “pack once, wear everywhere” sandal—and trust me, you’ll never regret having them in your arsenal.

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Megan Kristel is an entrepreneur, working mom, and former personal stylist. Tired of the one-dimensional portrayal of women online, she founded The Well Dressed Life as a resource for other professional women.

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johanna

Sunday 16th of June 2024

Love this! So refreshing :) thank you! I think more people need to hear/read this. I refuse to be a slave to TikTok trends.

Julia

Wednesday 22nd of March 2023

I 100% agree with Melanie's comment about logos, which was something you used to dislike. Something small I is fine but a logo or corporate emblem so consuming and identifiable for expensive (to me) daywear that pops me into a stereotype, that's not for me. There are just as nice (or nicer) alternatives such as Sam Edelman.

Christy

Wednesday 22nd of March 2023

I covet Miller sandals and white tretorn sneaks. I want to dress in away that's timeless and lasts. For heaven's sake, I still have my coach bucket bag from 1999. So, thank you for your rant. I totally agree. I agree that fashion needs to be effortless and full of quality items. Items that last more than two washings. Rant away Girl!

Donna

Wednesday 22nd of March 2023

Well worded article. Thanks

Paula Barron

Tuesday 21st of March 2023

THANK YOU! THANK YOU! THANK YOU! This article is right on point and I agree with you 1000% As a woman who is literally at the door of 50 (July 5), I prided myself in trying to stay on trend, without it appearing as if I am trying too hard and/or trying to look like I am 25, which I obviously am not. I have worked very hard my entire life alongside my husband and we managed to raise 5 children who are independent and work hard as well. I am now able to afford things for myself like Tory Burch Miller Sandals (in fact I am ashamed to say how many pair I own) and things like the Louie Vuitton Neverfull. At this stage in my life, I purchase items for comfort, because I like them and because I think they look good on me or compliment me. I am so sick of the constant disregard for cost and quality and the disposable attitude as well. I so appreciate your honesty despite if it is popular or not!

Tracy

Tuesday 21st of March 2023

Thank you for this!! I have been a fan of yours since I joined the well dressers life a couple of years ago thru the recommendation of a friend. I trust your advice and I love the options you provide and also your opinions on things! ! I’m keeping my skinny jeans which I love—thanks to you because I was so upset that they may not be “in” anymore. You are correct some of these influencers—-can really drive someone nuts!!!

Ute

Tuesday 21st of March 2023

Good for you, Megan! I just get so frustrated by some of these kids who bang on about how "Eco-friendly" and CO2 neutral they are, but they are happy to throw good stuff away because it is no longer "in". They are happy to waste money but what about all those precious resources?!

Alicia

Tuesday 21st of March 2023

Have you see the Jack Rogers comfort sandal? Look like Jack Rogers with Birkenstock soles. A modern icon!

Carol

Tuesday 21st of March 2023

Yay Megan! Thank you for this timely post on these sandals. They are my all time favorite sandal and I will continue to wear them with my Louis Vuitton bag!

Cindy Morgan

Tuesday 21st of March 2023

MK - you are right on! I don't purchase shoes because they are "in style." I purchase them because of comfort first then style. I WISH I could wear those pretty Miller Sandals but at my age with my back and feet, I cannot. The Finn Comfort sandals that I wear are perfect for my feet. They are well made and have, so far, lasted years. If someone tried to tell me they were no longer fashionable, I would laugh in their face. Same with a Coach handbag that I have had for 25 years. It still looks as good as when I purchased it and it makes me happy when I use it. That is stylish enough for me.

Petunia

Tuesday 21st of March 2023

I appreciate your perspective on this item, and I couldn’t agree more that a classic is a classic. Also, wear what you love and suits your lifestyle! Interestingly, I always thought the Miller sandal was a modern take on the Jack Rogers sandals. I’m still wear those and probably won’t stop.

Colleen

Tuesday 21st of March 2023

Thank you! Thank you! You are a wonderful voice of reason Megan.

Martha

Tuesday 21st of March 2023

I LOVE how you think! It’s so frustrating when “they” say something classic is dated. It feels like a money making scheme. Love your site and I feel like we are height sisters - I’m 5’10 too! 😂

Melanie

Tuesday 21st of March 2023

I agree with the wastefulness of fashion. I particularly enjoy the shade I get from “eco-conscious” 20- & 30-somethings when I wear my skinnies out running errands. 😂

I detest overt logos or branding so these sandals aren’t it for me. That brands wax and wane as fashionable or not is part of the reason I avoid overt logos.

Shaun Smith

Tuesday 21st of March 2023

I love my Miller sandals! Looked at a pair in lavender this morning. They are truly a modern classic.

Eileen

Tuesday 21st of March 2023

The Tori sandals , like the Jack Rodger , and Hermes sandals, are classics.

Tammy

Tuesday 21st of March 2023

Thank you for this post akd thank you for being grounded and thoughtful in your recommendations! As someone who pays college tuition, supports two teenagers in youth sports and school extra-curricular activities that require a some serious money to participate…I guarantee I look at “cost per wear” before choosing to spend $200 on flip flops (or anything else I wear truth be told). I love that I can translate better basics in my closet to a few seasons of mileage because they aren’t trendy but are classic. I view Tory Burch Miller and Patos Disk sandals as just that-classics!💕

jenice

Tuesday 21st of March 2023

Well said!

Rachel

Tuesday 21st of March 2023

Megan - I just recently found your blog, and I just had to say that I LOVE this post! I hate those type of statements from bloggers...along with the next $500 sweatshirt that they want you to buy. Whether we "can" afford these things or not, no one should feel societal pressure to spend a certain amount to feel stylish and/or feel it necessary to get rid of an expensive purchase because it was all of a sudden deemed "out of style". Thank you for being a necessary voice of reason to women looking to feel good in the clothes they choose!