Coffee dates are perfect for meeting and getting to know someone in a more casual, laid-back setting. Whether you’re going on a first date after connecting through online dating, seeing friends from a book club, or meeting a potential business connection, a coffee date is the ideal setting to keep things relaxed. And, of course, it’s always a good excuse to drink more coffee, which I’m always on board for.
Lately, we’ve received requests for outfit ideas specifically for coffee dates, as more people are looking for versatile outfits that strike the right balance between casual and chic. What I love about a coffee date is that it allows you to show off your personal style without feeling like you need to get glammed up. It’s an opportunity to feel polished and put together in a way that reflects your authentic self.
Best of all, coffee dates don’t require elaborate outfits. You can stay comfortable while still looking stylish. Whether you’re opting for jeans and a blazer or a playful floral dress, the key is finding a look that feels both chic and effortless.
Coffee Date Outfit Ideas
When planning your coffee date outfit, there are a few key factors to keep in mind. First, consider the weather. Even if you’ll be indoors for most of the date, you’ll want to be prepared in case things go so well that you end up taking a stroll outside.
Since coffee dates are typically laid-back, there’s no need to go all out with formal attire. Instead, opt for pieces that reflect a relaxed, easygoing vibe. Fabrics like cotton, linen, and denim are perfect choices, along with relaxed silhouettes that offer both comfort and style. As for footwear, go for something comfortable yet chic, like sandals, flats, or block heels.
With the right balance, you can feel comfortable while still looking effortlessly stylish.
What To Wear To A Coffee Date
1. Classic Jeans and a Blazer
Jeans are a staple for coffee dates because they’re both comfortable and versatile. My favorite splurge worthy pair are The Hiker Skimp Straight Leg Jeans by Mother. Pair them with a blazer for a polished yet relaxed look. Opt for your most comfortable jean and a tailored blazer to add structure to the outfit without looking too formal.
A simple blouse or tee underneath completes the look. Add a pair of stylish loafers or ankle boots, and you’re ready to go.
Style tip: Choose a blazer in a neutral tone like black, navy, or gray for maximum versatility. You can also roll up the sleeves for a more casual vibe.
2. Floral Dress and Sneakers
For a feminine, playful option, try a floral dress in a seasonal print paired with casual sneakers. And the sneaker doesn’t have to be solid white. I may have found my new favorite sneaker in these neutral PUMA’s. I found them on sale for $88 at Revolve. They are sold under mens sneakers, but are unisex.
This combination is perfect for a coffee date as it’s cute without being overdone. A midi or knee-length dress will keep the outfit relaxed and comfortable, while the sneakers add a touch of casual chic. It’s a great balance between laid-back and stylish.
Style tip: Opt for white sneakers or another neutral color to keep the look crisp and modern.
3. Turtleneck and High-Waisted Pants
When the weather cools down, a cozy turtleneck with high-waisted trousers is an excellent option. This look is effortlessly stylish and works well for an afternoon coffee date. Choose high-waisted pants in a sleek cut—like straight-leg or wide-leg—to create a flattering silhouette. Add a pair of loafers or heeled boots for extra polish.
The Colette pant at Anthropologie are BELOVED, available in a range of SKUs offering full and cropped length. Above is the full length option in sizes 23 – 34 with plus sizes as well in regular, petite and tall.
And shout out to these sock booties from Amazon’s The Drop line. I bought these in October of 2022 and they don’t owe me a penny – still look great, still shockingly comfortable.
Style tip: Tuck your turtleneck into your pants to define your waist and add a belt for an extra style touch.
4. Oversized Sweater and Leggings
If you want maximum comfort without sacrificing style, an oversized sweater paired with leggings is the way to go. This outfit is perfect for a more casual coffee date, especially if you’re meeting up at a cozy café. Choose a sweater in a soft, neutral color and pair it with black or leather-look leggings. Finish the look with ankle boots or trendy sneakers.
For “outfit” leggings, skip the ones you wear around the house and consider spending a little more on a better quality pair. You really can’t go wrong with The Seamless Leggings from Spanx.
Style tip: Elevate the outfit with accessories like a stylish crossbody bag or layered necklaces to keep it from looking too casual.
5. Statement Blouse and Trouser Jeans
If you want to add a bit of personality to your coffee date outfit, try pairing a statement blouse with slim-fit jeans.
A blouse with interesting details like puff sleeves, lace, a bold print or striking color can instantly elevate your look. Keep the rest of the outfit simple with well-fitting jeans and minimal accessories to let the blouse shine.
I cannot wear this color but I always LOVE it when I see it. If this is in your color wheel-house, consider picking it up from Banana Republic Factory for only $40.
And remember trouser jeans? A beloved staple for us geriatric millennials, well, they are back and this pair from J.Crew is a must.
Style tip: Add heeled ankle boots or block heel flats to complete the look without going overboard.
Which outfit will you feel most confident in for a coffee date?
Remember, even in a super casual setting, you can still look well-dressed and show off your personal style. With that in mind, which outfit would you don with confidence for a java-fueled meet-up?
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