Soft and Feminine Trench

Soft and Feminine Trench

I’m a big fan of the trench coat. When I cinch the belt and pop the collar, I can’t help feeling a little more powerful and sophisticated. In general, coats are an essential element in an outfit. They are your first impression and can either elevate your style or distract from it. This time of year, the trench is such a great outfit “finisher.” Since we are finally able to shed our winter layers and add something light and elegant to our outfits, trench coats make it easy to up your style factor with little effort.

I’ve been on the hunt for a new trench with a few requirements: it couldn’t be Burberry (there are plenty of blogs showing off $1500 trench coats), it needed to be a little different, and under $200.

After searching for hours, I stumbled on this absolutely gorgeous Badgley Mischka Faux Leather Trim Trench, for, wait for it, $130.

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, $130  |  Umbrella, $38  |  Scarf, $40

This trench comes in four soft neutral colors.  Above is “fog,” the most neutral of the options.  It’s available in XS = 0 to and XL =14.  I like that the style is unstructured, so if you are as straight as a pencil, or have curves,  it will work for your body type.  You can easily have this hemmed to hit right below your knee without the alteration affecting the line of the coat.

Because I get idyllic about this time of year, I envision walking in the city, on a rainy day, looking like I just stepped off the set of some romantic comedy.  This will never happen, but it’s good to have goals.  Why not pick up a cheeky umbrella, like this one from Kate Spade.

Finish off the look with a simple scarf.  I spent way too much time looking for one, and, for the record, I have amazing taste.  What I want is a vintage Hermes.  If you happen to have one and have no idea what to do with it, start wearing it immediately.  Mixing such a timeless piece, with modern, better priced items creates an incredibly chic look. I eventually found is this lovely black and white scarf by Ralph Lauren for $40.  It’s an entirely different look than the Hermes, but equally on point.


Weekend Inspiration: Patagonia “Better Sweater” Zip Pullover

Weekend Inspiration: Patagonia "Better Sweater" Zip Pullover
Weekend Inspiration: Patagonia "Better Sweater" Zip Pullover - The Well Dressed Life

It’s almost spring, which, in our house, means softball season. Growing up, I lived across the street from our neighborhood recreation center. My bed was tucked underneath my bedroom window, facing the little league field.

On Saturday mornings I woke up to a beautiful crisp breeze wafting through my room and the clanging sound of metal bats. To this day, every time I hear it I’m filled with comfort and nostalgia.

These days our weekends start early, we stop and grab a coffee and spend the afternoon bouncing back and forth between fields. My husband coaches our youngest. I help out on the bench, managing the batting order, teaching the girls to cheer for their teammates and helping the catcher get her gear on and off.

I smile when I hear Bri say the same things my dad tried to teach me: bend your knees, keep your eye on the ball, and, my personal favorite, don’t catch the ball with your face.

After being cooped up in the house for months, the sunshine and fresh air are just what the doctor ordered. I get all mushy watching these little 8-year-old girls swing their bats and drop into “ready position.”

A few of the players already have such fierceness and focus. It makes me so happy to see how they are learning confidence, teamwork, friendship, and determination.

This is our last weekend before the season officially starts, so I’m spending some time organizing the house for spring and going through equipment. It dawned on me that I needed a few things so our weekend mornings run smoothly too. 

I have literally worn through most of my active wear over the winter, to the point that my leggings look sheer (yikes!) and my go-to hoodies are tattered.



Weekend Inspiration: Patagonia "Better Sweater" Zip Pullover

Patagonia “Better Sweater” Zip Pullover, $99

I decided to replace all my random hoodies and sweatshirts with this Patagonia pullover.  It’s so soft, and lightweight but still warm. It’s called “birch white” but looks more like a very light gray.  Perfect.  I’m going to live in it all season.


Weekend Inspiration: Patagonia "Better Sweater" Zip PulloverLeggings, $54  |  Tote, $30  |  Water Bottle, $35  |  Aviators, $65  |  Sneakers, $120

If you want to look pulled together while super casual you have to look at what you’re wearing like any other outfit.  What works best for me is keeping all of these pieces limited to a few colors: black, gray and white.  This way everything goes together with little thought and effort.

Zella Live in High Waist Leggings are our favorite legging to wear outside the gym.  They stay in place, and are thick enough to keep you covered.  (These are the only leggings I have found that do not get sheer with time.)  They also wash well so the $54 price tag is worth it.

We have a zillion boat and totes in our house: one for the pool, one for the beach, one in my car to corral random items. I bought another just for softball season so I can schlep water and snacks, wipes, and anything else we might need for the team.

Let’s talk about sunglasses for a moment. I love a good, over the top, designer pair of sunnies, but when you’re fielding balls hit by eight year olds a pair of oversized Gucci’s look ridiculous.  I picked up these $65 of Aviators by Quay Australia “Gold/Smoke” and they are fantastic and don’t cost a car payment.  They will probably be my everyday pair for the summer.

If you are in the market for a new sneaker, I really like my Nike’s. Aside from a sleek design, they are incredibly comfortable and supportive.  Some sneakers are so awkward and because I’m tall (with size 10 feet) they often feel oversized.  These are streamlined and just disappear.  You can train in these and wear them outside the gym.

Finally, spending $35 on a water bottle seemed silly at first.  But I bought it anyway and am so happy I did.  I’m not buying a plastic bottle and wasting half of it, probably saving some money and definitely drinking more water.  Once you make a habit of filling and packing it, you’ll be happy you have it too.


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How to Wear Gray Jeans

How to Wear Gray Jeans - The Well Dressed Life
How to Wear Gray Jeans - The Well Dressed Life

A few weeks back we featured these gray jeans in a Weekend Inspiration post.  Since then, we’ve received dozens of request for more ideas to get as much wear out of them as possible. So today we are showing you how to wear gray jeans three different ways.

How to Wear Gray Jeans

How to Wear Gray Jeans

Jeans, $189

I’m not going to lie, this is one of my most favorite posts.  Everything came together just right.  We wanted to show not only three options, but three totally different looks.  Many readers bought these Paige jeans last month, and just as many picked up these Old Navy Rockstar jeans.  We always try to provide as many price options as possible in a variety of sizes.

Let’s start with the prettiest causal outfit ever:

How to Wear Gray Jeans: Casual


How to Wear Gray Jeans - The Well Dressed LifeOutfit 1: Top, $49  |  Sneaker, $130  |  Scarf, $13

I’m in love with this mix of soft neutrals.  Remember casual doesn’t ever have to been sloppy, in fact, it can be super chic.  Just like we did last month, I paired pink with gray. It’s a classic combination that looks so fresh.  I like this simple fleece Gibson top.  It’s under $50 and comes in four wearable colors and an array of sizes including petite.

Can we talk about these sneakers?  Because the are heavenlyCole Haan makes such a good shoe. These, in a soft dove gray buttery leather, are the chicest sneakers I’ve ever seen.  They are not inexpensive, but might be worth the spend if you are in the market for a weekend sneaker that makes no effort to look like a sneaker you would wear to the gym.

Finally, this scarf is exactly what I was looking for.  It’s equally soft and muted, and adds just the right layer without bulk.

How to Wear Gray Jeans: Date Night

How to Wear Gray Jeans - The Well Dressed LifeOutfit 2: Sweater, $30  |  Heel, $70  |  Bag, $35

Hello, date night.  One of the easiest ways to wear gray is in a monochromatic outfit. To pull off all one color, you need to work in shades of that color.  If you wore the exact same tone and saturation of one color your outfit would be flat.  Instead, look for varring tones.  This will give your look depth and interest. Here, we did just that.

I don’t think I want to spend more than $30 on an off the shoulder sweater.  I’m wearing it a few times, and then I’m done, so this one from H&M is just what I want.  For the shoe, I went with these simple suede heels.  They are higher than what I would wear all day, but for a few hours I could manage.  Dolce Vita makes a decent heel, especially when they are on sale

For the bag, I found this gorgeous burgundy suede crossbody that can easily be carried as a clutch.  It’s $35 at DSW, a steal if you consider wearing burgundy is the equivalent of a neutral.  To pull the look together with a burgundy lipstick.

How to Wear Gray Jeans: Brunch


How to Wear Gray Jeans - The Well Dressed LifeOutfit 3: Sweater, $102  |  Heel, $120  |  Bag, $595

Finally, an everyday outfit.  You can wear this to a casual work meeting, or brunch with friends.  I like to combination of beige and gray, it’s wonderfully sophisticated. We featured a similar sweater last year in gray from Banana Republic, and readers went crazy for it.  This version is available in black, gray and beige.  You’ll leave the cardigan on, so layer a simple shell underneath.  Old Navy makes a fantastic and crazy affordable tank.

The shoes are a bit of a trend. They have a V-shaped topline, so they almost look like a hybrid of a pump and a bootie.  The bag is a total splurge, I know.  I like its look and line. Even though Coach jumped the shark for a few years ago and sold out by covering every single product it made with a hideous logo (I have no strong opinions) when they actually make a traditional handbag, it’s gorgeous.

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